「你是GAY我也是」地铁阿伯大胆示爱 邀鲜肉洋肠：今晚FxxK我
▲新加坡一名71岁男子见到25岁美国籍男子，大胆示爱：「你是GAY，我也是GAY！那你今晚FxxK我！」（图／翻摄自Joe DeMarini脸书影片）
新加坡一名自称是同性恋的71岁颜姓男子，今年4月在地铁上骚扰一名25岁美国籍男子，不断大胆示爱：「你是GAY，我也是GAY！那你今晚FxxK我！」被拍下影片还硬闹要跟美国男约炮上床，17日被控骚扰、蓄意伤人、滋扰公众共3项罪状。
根据外媒报导，71岁的颜男自称是同性恋，他4月19日晚上8时30分许搭乘前往花拉公园的列车时，见到车厢内美国籍男子德梅里尼（Joseph DeMarini），立即上前搭讪。
搭讪过程中，颜男大胆示爱：「我喜欢你。你是gay，我也是gay！」、「我要你今晚FxxK我！」不断指称德梅里尼是同志，即便对方一直否认说「我不是」，要求不要再言语骚扰，他还不断跳针：「你就是gay！」
其他乘客看不下去，纷纷出面制止，但颜男仍不断闹事，不断大喊自己是gay，指着美国男说他也是gay，还出手攻击人，场面相当尴尬。
整段过程都被德梅里尼的朋友用手机拍下来，并且将影片上传至脸书上。画面曝光后引起网友热议，从上传至今已有近160万次观看。
网友们纷纷留言表示：「也太可怕了吧」、「不管同性恋异性恋，骚扰别人真的是很恶」、「新加坡地铁一堆毛」、「美国男应该吓死了」、「这应该就是精神疾病吧？」、「好可怕」、「不知道要怎么教小孩了」、「旁边的民众都很错愕」、「这什么社会啊！不会尊重他人吗」等。
Hey Singapore friends: just a heads up, this guy physically assaulted me on the MRT, so if you ever see him, be on your guard. I was with a friend and he approached me--drunk--and said he was gay, and that he wanted to fuck me. He said, "I know you're gay, so let's fuck." This went on for several minutes and I tried to politely diffuse the situation, but then he began to yell at my friend when she intervened; I wouldn't let this stand, and started to become angry myself. He threatened her, and some other people on the train intervened (several were filming). He touched me, and I told him not to, and I briefly lost my temper--after that he slapped me on the side of the head. He kept going on and on, and when a woman tried to take his picture, he attempted to kick her phone out of her hand. When my friend and I got off at our stop, he got off as well, but we managed to evade him and leave the station without him following us. For those of you that don't know: I'm not gay (not that it should matter). However, I don't exactly fit the "masculine" mold of society, so oftentimes I am mistaken as queer--on several occasions around the world, for example, I've caught flak for carrying a "man purse." On a personal level, this is why I need feminism: so I can be confident in myself and not feel like I have to fulfill any gender role assigned to me. However, I do appreciate that women probably have to deal with this shit (or at least the threat of it) on a fairly regular basis. For those asking "Why didn't you fight back or call the police?" I say, "I am a white immigrant in a country where I do not have citizenship and am a minority--law enforcement may not take my side, despite video and photo evidence." This is something I learned while living in South Korea, where no amount of assimilation will protect you when a Korean is arguing against you. In this situation, there's a chance I would've been accused of inciting violence, and been charged accordingly. I feel pretty awful about this--it's after 2:30 in the morning and I can't sleep; I can't even bring myself to watch the video. Is that normal? In a sick sense, I feel lucky to have this recorded: it's proof! And others have recorded it as well! Some people would die for that kind of evidence! Yet here I am, too embarrassed and too ashamed to watch it. A slap on the head is nothing, really, but I feel completely unsettled--Singapore has been a trial by fire since my first day, and this doesn't help. In all honesty, I'm a bit tipsy and have no idea what I'm feeling. I wish I'd said thank you to the train people who took a stand and put themselves between me and this man, but I was too rattled to muster it (at least I could thank my friend, who had the good sense to make a video). I wish I'd sat in a different train car, and the whole situation could've been avoided. Was it the V-neck I was wearing? My ripped skinny jeans? I probably should have held my temper, but that's not my character. Could I have found a way to peacefully diffuse the whole situation? It's obviously not my fault but, somehow, a part of me is convinced it was. Anyway, I have work in the morning, so the only thing to do is press on (or at least try to get some sleep). I've accomplished more in a few years than I could've ever imagined, and I've met so many amazing and supportive people along the way--I can't really let the few bastards of the world stop me, can I?